*In song* Sex baby! Let's talk about you and me! Let's talk about all the good things, and the bad things, that may be! Let's talk about sex! *end song*
Right now, I want to talk about something for mature audiences only! Sex. Viewer discretion is advised. Ah sex, the most exciting, dangerous, sensational, risky, and life changing part of life. Sex is something that can only be handled by those who are old enough to understand what is wrong and right, and the effects of it. I would say that age is right around 14 or 15. So just around the age everyone is starting high school. Why do I say that? Because of the risks and dangers of sex. In this post, I'm not going to only be talking about the fun parts of sex; I will be addressing the bad parts as well.
What are some of the risks of having sex? Well, depending on the people engaging in the act, the dangers vary. Some of the risks are the same for heterosexual and homosexual people, but there are some that can be very different.For right now, let's say the engaging parties are heterosexual. Ergo, a boy and a girl. Aside from catching an STI or HIV, you can get pregnant. Now getting pregnant at a young age does not mean you are going to be on teen mom. It also does not mean your life is over. What it means is that your life has changed, and you are no longer living your life for just you, your living a life for two. And whatever risks came with that sexual encounter, you may have passed on whatever disease you caught to a new born person who had nothing to do with anything.
If the engaging parties are homosexual, things are a little different. We are not more likely to catch HIV or an STI, but we also don't have to worry about getting pregnant, cause let's face it, it just doesn't work that way. Even though the life changing result of a baby is not a risk for us, we still must be aware of catching diseases and being brought into other dangers.
No matter what kind of sex and who you engage in sex with, you should be old enough to deal with the repercussions. That's exactly why we shield this kind of excitement from kids as long as we can because it sometimes brings more than just pleaseure, it brings responsibility. Responsibility that a person under 15 just can't handle. I am not saying anyone who has sex under the age of 16 is doomed to a life of responsibility from there on. I'm not saying It's necessarily a bad thing to have had sex before the age of 15. What I'm saying is, of you are going to make the grown up decision to have sexual intercourse, be mature enough to take on the responsibility and repercussions that follow.
Now that I've gotten that out of the way, I can take on the exciting parts about sex! The passion, the romantics, the logistics, the kinks, and the don'ts! All of which depict on the person. I'm mainly going to be speaking from my point of view and from what my friends tell me, but no one can tell you what you like. Everyone has different tastes and turn ons. It is just up to them to find them.
That's what I like about sex. It helps you to find out a lot about yourself. A lot of people find that sex is very taboo and you should never talk about it. Some people are even ashamed! Which I just don't understand anymore.
When I was younger, and was just really starting to have sex, I would never like to talk about it. I liked it for the most part, despite how bad it was, but I was ashamed of what I did as a gay man versus what I would've done if I was straight. And as time went on, I learned I didn't have to tell anyone what I did behind closed doors. It was my business! But then I saw a movie called Weekend, which was a movie made in the UK about these two guys who meet up at a club and start dating, kind of. One of the main characters is making a movie about gay sex and he explains to the other character why gay people should share their sex stories. We are always being stereotyped and the straight people think they know us, but unless we start speaking out about ourselves, they will continue with their ignorance.
And he wasn't wrong. I too was ignorant. I thought all gay men enjoyed oral and anal sex, which just isn't the case. Some guys just don't like giving oral, or receiving. Some guys don't like anal because it hurts or they are disgusted by it, which is fine, that's their opinion. But I would not have known that if it weren't for the people who spoke up against our ignorances and told us that. From that point on, I realized that it wasn't bad to talk about se, and I shouldn't be ashamed of what I was doing. If I liked sucking cock, fine! If I liked rimming a nice clean hole, so be it! And if sometimes I wanted to get pinned down and fucked from behind, then by all means, I'll let ya know!
In sex I learned a lot about myself. I learned about passion and kinks. I learned that I am can be a very passionate lover, but also very aggressive. Let's tackle passion first.
I am a person who loves to kiss. I love to make out first and get into some hair stroking and then rubbing my guy all over. I love being rubbed down and making out and the work our way slowly. I never liked jumping right into fucking. I appreciated the pleasure and the foreplay that went into sex. I always enjoyed making my partner feel good. After all, if he wasn't having fun, I wasn't! I pretty much hate doggy-style just because I don't get to see my lover's face. I love getting to lean over and kiss while getting fucked or doing the fucking. And then to end, I love that last finishing moment of holding on tightly and kissing.
The aggressive part is just very sexy! Again, I love taking my time. Playing with his hair and then kissing and licking his neck! I am known for leaving guys with hickeys. I love licking him all the way down to his nipples and hearing him moan and groan as I lick my way down to you know where! Slowly pleasuring him, teasing him into ecstasy. Licking and fingering his hole to really get him rowled up and sucking his cock at the same time always gets them going! And then I like pinning their legs back and slowly getting inside and taking my time while I fuck him. Pinning his hands above his head while I pound his ass and keeping him from jerking off. Then as I'm ready to cum, I pull out and then I shoot all over him. Then, It's my turn!
Because I can cum twice, it allows me to get fucked, and do some fucking! I love it when guys pull my hair and lightly play wig my nipples. Groping at me every step of the way. Me and my friend joked about how we have long hair. I have always had short hair when I was young, and now that I have long hair, I want you sexy mother fuckers to pull it! I love it when a guy is very rough and aggressive with my neck! Giving me hickey after hickey and pinning me down while he does so. Then licks his way down and delicately licked the tip of my nipples and works his way down. Slowly sucking my cock and playing with my nipples at the same time, dirty talking to me the entire way through. I love it when a guy dirty talk while he rims and fucks me. He rims my hole until is is nice and lubricated and fingers me while he sucks me. The he 69's me and fingers me until he's ready to plow this bear cub's ass! He slowly gets inside me and he plows away, dirty talking me the entire way. Leaning over and kissing me and pinning my hands down so I can't jerk off. Finally, when it is time to cum, he pulls out and cums all over my torso and jerks me off himself.
Sex is a wonderful thing, but like I said, is only for people who can handle it. It is very invasive, but also can be very rewarding. I have learned a lot about myself and have gained tons of confidence from it. I give it to those people who wait til marriage, I would NEVER be able to wait that long. Plus, I wouldn't know what I know now about myself, which I would never give up.
Thanks for reading everyone, hope everyone enjoyed the post and took something from it. I hope it won't be too long until the next post. I leave you with many sexual thoughts and wish you many adventures that will lead you tk finding who you really are! You dirty boys you!
~Be Breezy!~
